If anything is worth recalling on a musty day somewhere in late September, it's a salty kiss given full of promises that may never have been kept, but at the time they had a sense of eternity and were worth every second of their existence. That and the smell of coconut from your favorite sunscreen, left on your skin hours after the sea, reminding you that summer's regenerationis a breath of fresh air for the psyche and goes hand in hand with love. That love that, to find, you have to play the game of flirtation smartly and courageously. Embrace your oils and sunscreen, you've got anaplasis to help you do it and get ready for your hottest and most erotic summer with ten different and fun ways to flirt and make it work!
1. I heard about an awesome beach!
It's hard to flirt on a crowded beach - and therefore hard to choose. So you want to somehow reduce the manpower so that the antennas focus where they should, on you. And since you can't turn away swimmers one by one, what could be simpler and easier than to throw out the idea of going to that fantastic nose, with its white sand and green water, which, as it happens, knows not a soul and is more remote than the blue lake. Here your choices are two. Either you say it straight and hope for a positive response, or you play it sneaky and indirectly and accidentally discuss it by walking - or swimming - within three feet of the person you want to cast. Then you pitch a tent and wait.
A bathing suit, maybe a hat, at most a fancy glass. That's your props. What shows off on the beach is your natural beauty, your aura and your posture. Your skin here is your canvas. You want it to exude health, to be luscious and juicy, to make the other person want to touch it. A tanned body exudes a sense of health and well-being while hiding imperfections. It also hides the fact that you didn't come home from work yesterday bursting for a quick swim in Halkidiki, but you've been vacationing for a month. But you want the tan to be done right and at the same time last and not peel off like a snake two hours later. You need a good tanning oil that is easily absorbed, so you don't look like an oily kangaroo -we don't want that- but at the same time, it also brings fast results. GLOW Quick Tanning Oil with natural beeswax is the product that will instantly give you the results you want and skin to kiss, or whatever the menu offers anyway.
For the more playful and less energetic of the group, it doesn't mean that you will be left with your hands crossed and without success. You might as well use this trait to your advantage, because to your surprise they don't go all over the beach to water ski, scuba dive ten feet or play a five-hour racquetball tournament in the sandbar. But a board game we all play and we all enjoy, don't deny it. Besides, it's such a harmless suggestion that there's no room for refusal in response, it's almost rude to refuse. Bonus that the distance you will have cannot be too great; small the board what can we do it's our fault;- and at the same time all teasing is not only accepted, but necessary.
We are of course talking about the case of "can I put some sunscreen on you?" which comes out to "will you put some sunscreen on me?" The first verse is forbidden if you don't know the person at all, unless you see them struggling to apply it on their own on their poor red back. Also places like the buttocks or chest are red zones, to flirt we said, not to thrust. The second situation is clearly preferable, as you give the other person the right and the green light to apply the sunscreen, so you set your limits if you feel it's getting out of hand. Unless you want it to get out of hand, then you're out. Either way, your strength here, aside from being kind and in a good mood, is the sunscreen itself. You want the product that spreads easily, smells great, smells great, is easy to open so there are no accidents, and of course gives you protection, so don't waste all that spreading. You want one that will slightly take the awkwardness of the moment of two unfamiliar bodies touching and inadvertently go into "that's a nice sunscreen, can you put some on me too?".
And give him music by DJ and here are the cocktails with all the colours of the rainbow and here are the bodies bending to Fureira's "40 degrees melts the body" type of rhythms. The secret here is reverse psychology. At these kinds of parties everyone flirts and brings out the seduction in them, there is pervasive eroticism in the atmosphere and bodies bring their A game, so it's like swimming in a sea of flushed prospective lovers. Don't fall into this loop. Instead, bring out your fan side, make fun of the situation a bit, make fun of yourself, dance childishly and liberally, don't try to pull off the pretentiousness that everyone else is pulling off. Suddenly you'll be like milk in the flies - of course and you won't be the fly darling - so instead of having to reach out yourself, they'll reach out to you.
6. Let the guitars play the most beautiful blues
The beach is not just about noon and the hot sun, as the dinner - and the hours that follow - bring out its most charming and nostalgic aspects. It's the times for beer and deep philosophical conversations, where the skin slowly begins to calm down from the heat of the day, where the guitars (and mosquitoes agree) come out, where the waves calm down and let you enjoy the most important time of the day. Here it doesn't need exaggeration or fanfare, it needs your truth and a couple of thoughtful topics of conversation and the evening will flow by itself, with confessions following one another and you two getting closer and closer. Make sure you're wearing an after sun moisturizer that will pamper and condition your skinBut, because you don't want your kiss to start screaming that burn. If you were putting on sunscreen we wouldn't be having this, don't say I didn't tell you!
It goes with almost all beach activities, as long as you make sure you are a -1 person in all of them. You want a cockfighting person? Fill a seat on the banana boat? Canoe? On racquetball or volleyball? Take your pick and go. Never mind that you're not stabbing at anything, is it your fault that you're missing a person and this ethereal existence just happened to be in front of you? The only point to note here is to address the invitation to fill the spot individually and personally to the person who is grilling you, that way flattery will be born in them but also you avoid an invalid offering to fill the void. We don't want that!
Don't be that guy who makes a comment about body parts, who will throw obscene innuendos, who whistles at the passing of a nice swimsuit, who will come home a bear with two words. Be that imaginary individual who will make the comment that is clever, the unpredictable, the comment that will make the person receiving it crack a smile. A comment about the brand of sunscreen, for example, is something unexpected "And you anaplasis hey, great products, I have the oiltoo!" and bang goes the conversation. You've essentially just rewarded a choice of his and at the same time created a common ground between the two of you. All without being the least bit vulgar.
It is ingrained in our DNA to enjoy food, but its instinctive association with the feeling of being cared for, caring, so it is the perfect way to gain someone's sympathy. We're not saying to offer eggplant slippers on the beach at 4pm, but a watermelon will be duly appreciated, not to mention that you subconsciously create in whoever you offer it the feeling that they must somehow reciprocate. Win-win.
What turns us off most about beach flirting is the impermanence it displays. That and if it doesn't work out, I'll move on to the next chick and all is well. You feel expendable so you'd rather put up a wall than be one of the same. There's nothing wrong with wanting something quick and easy, but you have to accept that you might not get it without effort. So make the person you're flirting with feel like the only person on earth, ask politely if you'll see him again before he leaves, look at him when you talk to him, don't point with one foot out the door, ask discreetly for his number or give him yours and say you'll wait for a call. Play the kibbutz game.
The right paraphernalia will give you the company that knows how to take care of your skin, anaplasis, along with the confidence you need to take the first step. In the heart of July, summer is waiting for you to steal a deliciously sensual salty kiss. Or more, who knows.
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Source: www.pillowfights.gr
